Why we need the village

We were never meant to do this alone.

Motherhood Was Never Meant to Be Done Alone: Why We Need The Village

Hi everyone, and welcome back.

I’m so excited (and a little nervous) to finally share this with you because it’s been on my heart for a long time—today, we’re talking about The Village and why we absolutely need it as mothers.

It’s taken me over a decade of motherhood to realise something so fundamental, yet overlooked in today’s world: motherhood was never meant to be done alone. In fact, trying to “go it alone” as a mother has left so many of us overwhelmed, exhausted, and feeling like we’re failing.

But here’s the thing—I believe, deep down, we all know that’s not how it’s supposed to be.

The Isolation of Modern Motherhood
I recently had a conversation with a fellow mum on the beach. She shared that it took her a full ten years into her motherhood journey to finally feel like she “got it”—to feel grounded, steady, and confident.

I nodded, because I could relate to every word. I, too, found that sense of certainty and authenticity only after a decade of mothering. And it got me thinking—why did it take so long for us both to get here? Why do so many mothers feel like they’re swimming through murky waters for years before finding their footing? No one told us it would be like this. We weren’t warned about the emotional labor, the mental load, or the weight of doing it all without a community to lean on.

Modern motherhood is a stark contrast to what it once was. Historically, mothers were surrounded by other women—grandmothers, sisters, aunts—who shared the load. They were supported by their village. They had women they could turn to when they didn’t know what to do, and women to remind them that they were doing just fine.

But in today’s world, that village is often missing. We’re left trying to piece together a community, often relying on peers who are struggling just as much as we are. And let’s face it, social media doesn’t help. We see these polished versions of motherhood—clean houses, happy children, effortless routines—and compare them to our messy, chaotic reality. It’s no wonder so many of us feel isolated and like we’re not measuring up.

Motherhood in the Age of Overwhelm
Motherhood today is overwhelming. We’re not just raising kids; we’re balancing the mental load of running a household, contributing financially, and trying to keep it all together—while often feeling completely disconnected from ourselves and those around us. It’s too much. It’s too much for one person to carry.

And the heartbreaking part is, we know this, but we don’t know what to do about it. I’ve watched mothers drown in their overwhelm because they don’t have a village to lean on. The rates of postpartum depression and maternal burnout are climbing, and there’s no one to step in and help lighten the load. We’ve been told to “have it all together” and to not ask for help, and that message is crushing us.

Rebuilding The Village: A Better Way
The truth is, we were never meant to do this alone. Motherhood was never designed to be a solitary journey.

The support of other mothers, other women, is essential. It’s what helps us thrive, not just survive.

That’s why I created The Village.

It’s more than just a membership—it’s a community where mothers can come together to share, support, and connect. It’s a place where you don’t have to pretend that you’ve got it all figured out, where you can show up as you are—messy, tired, joyful, overwhelmed—and be accepted.

Because here’s the thing: when mothers feel supported, everything changes.

We become more confident, more resilient, and more grounded. We feel validated in our experiences, and that validation gives us the courage to face the challenges of motherhood head-on. When we come together, we’re stronger.

What You Can Expect in The Village
In The Village, you’ll find:
Connection: Genuine, honest conversations with other mothers who get it.
Support: Practical tools to help with the day-to-day realities of motherhood.
Community: A space to share your experiences, to be seen, and to know that you’re not alone.
Growth: A chance to reflect, learn, and grow as a mother, while being supported by a community of women who are doing the same.

Motherhood doesn’t have to feel like you’re on a never-ending treadmill. It doesn’t have to be overwhelming. It can be a season of growth, joy, and connection—when we do it together.

So if you’ve ever felt like you’re doing this alone, or like you’re drowning under the weight of it all, I invite you to come join us in The Village.

Let’s reimagine motherhood the way it was always meant to be—in community.

Why Join The Village?

This isn’t just another space for motherhood advice. It’s a movement to bring back communal support for mothers, to help us reconnect with each other and with ourselves.

Together, we’ll rewrite the story of motherhood in a way that serves us and our families, not one that drains us.

We need each other, mama. You are not alone.